Mr Toby Ong

Dear Ken, Leila, Jasmine, Lily and Henry. I wish I had the privilege to meet Toby. He was a beautiful human being that filled with light the lives of so many people. I pray that as the months and years pass, you find peace in the beautiful memories you created together as a family. Sandra (& Family)

Dr Sandra Walton-Betancourth

Remembering Toby with you all. With much love & prayers, Barry, Sonia, Olivia & Sophia xxxx

Mr & Mrs Barry & Sonia Patterson

To the Ongs Our thoughts are with the family Lai Fun Lai Cheong Kee Pun Kee Fai, Kirsty & family Moh Sim & Raul

Kee Pun Yeong & Chooi

What a beautiful, Toby-honouring and God-honouring memorial service, including such bravely-given and deeply meaningful family tributes, to encourage so many people sharing your unimaginable grief and who had the privilege of knowing Toby and your wonderful family. In deepest sympathy, with love and prayers from us all, Chris, Cathy-Joan, Laura & Emeka, Carolyn and David

Dr Chris Palmer

Dear Ken, Leila, Jasmine, Lily and Henry Thank you so much for the beautiful and deeply moving service for Toby. You all shared wonderful memories of a very special son and brother whose kind, caring and loving personality touched so many. May the love of our caring Lord support and comfort you. Ian and Jane

Mr Ian Melia

Dearest Leila and Ken, how wonderful Toby's funeral was yesterday; such a tribute to the love that he and your family is held in and to the faith of so many who surround you and know that he is safe now with Jesus and at peace waiting to be reunited one day with you all. Thank you for your honesty, it is so helpful to all of us, and for your wonderful faith, with love Sally

Ms Sarah McLean

Dearest Leila, Ken, Jasmine, Lily and Henry What a beautiful memorial service and tribute to such a special son and brother. In your profound grief, we hope there was some comfort and encouragement from the support of so many whose lives he has touched. How honouring to him to support these two charities. With love from Judy and Martin

Mr & Mrs Martin and Judy Christian

What a lovely young man Toby was. Thinking of you all in this time of great loss.

Mrs Sarah Ackroyd

The Memorial service was beautiful. I hadn’t seen Toby since childhood and it was wonderful to hear that he had grown up to be such a compassionate and caring young man. A huge credit to his lovely family and community.

Mrs Karen Laverick

Dear Leila, Ken, Jasmine, Lily and Henry, We are so deeply sorry for your loss. Toby was such a wonderful person, and we will always remember his kind smile and spirit. The service was truly beautiful. Sending you all our love and support. Maria and Souel

Mrs m sampson

With love for Toby Audrey and Khin

Mr & Mrs Audrey n Khin Wong

Sending love. A beautiful service to remember Toby, a wonderful young man.

Mrs Michelle Evans

With heart felt condolences and much love to the wonderful Ong family.

Miss Barbara Steen

With deepest sympathy

Mr Michael Fincham

We can all keep learning from all that life gives, in whatever form, however painful, and vitality and joy is one of the things I have learnt from Toby, Jasmine, Lily and Henry, Love to you all.

Ms Katy Kowalska

Toby was such a wonderful person and you organised a memorial that truly honoured him. Thank you.

Mrs Hannah Jones

We shall remember Toby fondly as a lovely young man.

Mr Rob Linsdell

It was a beautiful service today. Thinking of you all.

Dr Ben Fisher

With our love x

Mr & Mrs Katie Paton

Thank you for allowing me to be part of your beautiful service today, you are such an amazing family Much love to you all.

Ms Julie Harris

All three of us were really moved by today’s memorial for Toby. We really appreciated your witness and testimony and also calling out mental illness so strongly - it has already provoked other strong and important and emotional conversations this evening. Keep strong - we are praying for all five of you. We would love to spend time with you when you are ready. Simon, Shona and Danny

Mr Simon Blake

Dearest Ken, Leila, Jasmine, Lily and Henry, You were all remarkable today and shared such beautiful memories of Toby. Toby’s kindness, humour, selflessness and joy will live on through the impact he had on all who had the pleasure of knowing him. With love, Simon, Emma, Lucy & Polly xx

Mr & Mrs Simon, Emma, Lucy & Polly Tytherleigh

Toby was the most polite, caring and funny friend I had. He would always be the first person to check up on me, or be the person to made everybody smile. I’ll never forget the endless memories I have shared with him. God Bless you and your family

Ms Ella Charles

To the Ong Family, you are a beautiful family and your words today were touching and moving. My love with you all today and forever. Love Sophie, James and Penelope Barnett xxx

Mrs Sophie Barnett